Babies: Trusting Yourself to Parent

At the end of the day, even with all the parenting resources available today, it’s our sense of trusting ourselves that empowers us. Creating an ongoing format to enhance that confidence is a powerful tool to have in our parenting repertoire. It might be as simple as talking over your options about a particular challenge with a trusted mentor. An ongoing moms group that enables listening and sharing in a supportive way may be a good source of feedback. There are a variety of options for developing this important trait in your parenting.
As with many aspects of parenting, there is opportunity to constantly add to your ‘toolbox’, refine your insights, and upgrade your skills. Raising kids is the ultimate growth experience. They are growing – you can, too! Seeing the inevitable challenges as opportunities for your own personal growth is an attitude worth exploring.
You may wonder how a baby’s sleep habits could be an opportunity for your growth. Well, there are a great many different ways of responding, reacting, and handling sleep patterns and habits. The behaviors of your infant may summon responses that are unique. Singing a particular lullaby may work better with one child than another. The variations and opportunities for creativity are huge. Have fun with it, explore, be flexible and open, and see you own potential expand. That’s the best start to trusting yourself as a parent.

7 Comments

JDaniel4's MomJuly 2nd, 2010 at 12:33 pm

Stopping from Mom Loop! This so true. We found there is no manual for JDaniel. There a guidelines, but they are just that. We have to trust that we know what he needs. Have a wonderful 4th!

Unplanned CookingJuly 2nd, 2010 at 5:11 pm

I completely agree that you need to trust yourself as a parent, and I wish I had trusted myself more as a first time parent.

Stopping by from Mom Loop.

Leigh aka JerseyDivaMomJuly 2nd, 2010 at 8:00 pm

Finding a mentor n a mom’s group is so valuable. My sons are older (10 & 12), and each has ADHD. Were it not for moms who’ve been there and are there, I’d lose my mind.

That and my blog. And Mom Loop where I find great support like you!

Chie CarrollJuly 3rd, 2010 at 7:15 am

glad to find your blog in blogfrog! :) I’m blessed to be a parent, such a privilege and aside from trusting myself as a parent, I can also trust God to be my guide.

Ingrid JohnsonJuly 10th, 2010 at 11:53 am

Thanks for the great comments!
Trusting yourself as you parent is a process, something to build up over time, so don’t be critical of yourself for not doing it right the first time out!
Finding like-minded support and resources is vital, so please contact me any time. If I don’t have the answer, I’ll do my best to refer you to someone who does.
Thanks!

Ingrid JohnsonJuly 19th, 2010 at 12:54 pm

Use all your best resources!

Ingrid JohnsonJuly 19th, 2010 at 12:56 pm

The more tools you have for accessing true wisdom, the better. Developing those strategies takes place over time, and knowing where support is available can make a huge difference in your parenting experience.
Don’t hesitate to ask for help, and take the time to discover your own true parenting path. It’s worth it!

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